ToGetHer is a warm, vibrant, and inclusive social community created for 2SLGBTQIA+ women aged 50 and over in the Ottawa–Gatineau region. We believe that connection, joy, and belonging should thrive at every age—and that women of a “certain age” deserve spaces designed specifically for them.
Our mission is simple:
to bring mature queer women together through meaningful, welcoming, and fun social events.
Whether you're seeking friendship, community, companionship, or simply a place where you can be completely yourself, ToGetHer was created with you in mind.
For many women 50+, social spaces can feel limited or not truly reflective of their lived experiences, especially for women in the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. ToGetHer fills this gap by offering events and gatherings that prioritize safety, inclusivity, diversity, and real connection.
We celebrate women of all identities, backgrounds, cultures, abilities, and body types.
Our community proudly includes lesbians, bisexual women, queer women, trans women, and non-binary femmes who feel comfortable in women-centered spaces.
Here, every woman is seen. Every woman belongs.
ToGetHer hosts a variety of social events, outings, workshops, and gatherings tailored to women 50+. Our events are designed to be accessible, friendly, and joyful from casual coffee dates to themed parties, outdoor activities, cultural experiences, game nights, and more. Each event is created with care so participants can:
Our goal is to help you feel connected, energized, and inspired, one event at a time.
We welcome 2SLGBTQIA+ women 50+ from all walks of life. Diversity is at the heart of our community.
We create opportunities for women to meet, socialize, and form meaningful friendships.
We maintain a warm, respectful environment where everyone feels comfortable and valued.
Life after 50 is full of possibility—and our events reflect that spirit of fun and celebration.