ToGetHer is a social community created for 2SLGBTQIA+ women aged 50 and over living in the Ottawa–Gatineau region. Our events are designed for women who want to connect, socialize, and build meaningful friendships in a safe and welcoming environment.
Our events are primarily intended for women 50+ or close to it. We focus on shared life experience rather than strict age limits. If you feel aligned with our community, you are welcome.
Absolutely. Trans women are fully and warmly welcome at all ToGetHer events. We are committed to creating inclusive, affirming spaces for all women in the 2SLGBTQIA+ community.
No. ToGetHer is not a dating group. Our focus is on social connection, friendship, community, and shared experiences. While meaningful connections may naturally form, our events are designed around community—not dating.
We host a variety of social events for women 50+, including casual meet-ups, dances, themed gatherings, cultural activities, creative workshops, and seasonal events. All activities are designed to be inclusive, relaxed, and fun.
Our events take place in Ottawa area. Locations vary depending on the activity and are always shared in advance on our website and Facebook page.
No. You do not need to be out to attend ToGetHer events. We respect everyone’s personal journey and privacy. You are welcome exactly as you are.
Yes. ToGetHer proudly welcomes women of all cultures, backgrounds, body types, abilities, and identities. Our community includes lesbians, bisexual women, queer women, trans women, and non-binary femmes who are comfortable in women-centered spaces.
You can stay informed by:
Following our Facebook page
Visiting our Our Events page regularly
Contacting us directly if you have questions
We encourage joining our community online so you never miss an event.
Some events may be free, while others may have a small fee depending on the activity or venue. Any costs are always communicated clearly in advance.
Yes. Creating a safe, respectful, and affirming environment is central to ToGetHer. We expect kindness, respect, and inclusivity from all participants.
You can reach us through our Contact Us page or by messaging us on Facebook. We’re happy to answer questions and help you feel comfortable joining our community.